You learn a lot through pain, heartbreak and unpleasant situations. I use to wonder "Why me?" Why must I struggle? Why must heartbreak keep it's hateful grip on my heart? Why ...why...why? But know I understand. It's God's way of teaching us lessons. God makes us struggle....so we can grow stronger and escape the storm. And hopefully, at the end of it all, we learn our lesson and walk away a better person. So, make the best of what you have, and keep you mind open....because God talks to everyone, one way or another.