Wednesday, June 30, 2010

Kids vs Adults, makes you think.

I've been spending alot of time watching people, and just think how what we call "progression" in some cases can be the direct opposite. I mean this in way of i guess you can say friendship, but I'd rather say associate-ship. Think about it for a second. Look at a small child or rather a group of small children. They play together, laugh together and have some good ol fashion fun. Right? We do the same thing between associates, we shoot the breeze laugh and joke together. Now, here comes the major difference. When a small child dislikes somebody, that's it. That's it? That's it. They let it known "I don't like you anymore" and that's it. They stop talking, playing together, laughing together, they stop they're associate-ship.There's no thrash talking afterward nor is there the "fake friendship" going on. It's either there or gone. Simple enough. And....here comes the double kicker. Once they're not mad anymore, in comes the apologizes! That's right, they apologize and move on. There's no grudges. There's no, let me pretend to be his/her friend to her face but talk bad about them like they're a neglected Step-Step child. It's black and white. You either like the person or you don't. But why can't we adults do that?? Instead, we make seem as if we're (in a general sense) the best of friends. Laugh, joke and hang out together. Yet every time the person leaves from range of the sounds of our voice, the truth flies out. We were taught to say nothing if we had nothing nice to say, yet we can't close our mouth and all we have to say is negativity. Yet the very moment that person comes back, it's all good on the gazah strip. But why??? It's not like it makes our life better. I mean, in the work place, all you need to say is thing pertaining to the job and it in fact increases your productivity. Are we just that starved for acceptance? So starved that we'd play tho role of bff to our most hated person, just for human interaction? Seems like children have a little more edge on us adults, we could learn something here.

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