battle of family

.......*sigh*......why is it, that people just find the need to drag me into their battles? I mean, if it's a close friend or a spose or something of the sort, where I could clearly say "I'm on your side completely, because you are 100% right without a doubt. But, when it comes down to a fight between family, things get a little complicated. Needless to say, in certain arguments, like this one today, the sides are clear, the motives may may not be, but the ultimate goal is. But this is where the work......"conflict of intrest" comes to play. Do I pick the side who's intentions may be great, but motives may not be entirly in the pure, that give me problems many a many times again. Or do I pick the side that what drop a dime for me any given second, but may be wrong? Not to sound like I feel I'm the center of the universe, but when it comes to this it ends up being......what side is better for ME to go with. Should I go with none? Should I stay neautral like Switzerland? Should I sit back amongst the mind games and fighting, stayin quiet and sippin on a pina colada...(or a bull fighter lol)? As far as my best intrest goes......that might be the better choice no? How can to sides be upset with one if one picks no side at all?